Suffering can be used to help other people. And I’ve talked to you about this before that when I’m suffering, when I’m going through something that’s really difficult, do I wallow in my misery and get angry at God? Am I willing to offer it up to God? To use for a family member who’s struggling, use for a neighbor, a friend, or use for someone I’ve never met before, but simply to offer it to God for someone who might be in need of help.